Do you notice that all the good things we do for others sometimes does not matter at all to them........?
You do one thing that makes them upset....a statement or an action.......and they suddenly forget why they liked us in the first place......suddenly nothing good you did for them in the past matters anymore......
One thing......just one thing......is enough to make all the difference.
Even though you had such a good intention.....to help them get back on their feet.....to make them happy again....after years of feeling so miserable about themselves....... all we wanted to do was to help....
Sad.....it's so sad when this happens......
So I'm reminding myself again today.......that I shall not interfere anymore......I shall not make anymore statements.....even though in my heart I want so badly to say how I really feel. Since I'm quite a frank person.....someone who tells it as it is....no hidden agendas.....no prawn behind the mee.....
I shall trust my own instincts from now on.....it's usually right on the mark. If I ever get that uneasy feeling in the heart again....I will follow it.....gotta learn to trust it. Coz it's usually right.
I shall trust my own instincts from now on.....it's usually right on the mark. If I ever get that uneasy feeling in the heart again....I will follow it.....gotta learn to trust it. Coz it's usually right.
If I have to be cruel in order to be kind to myself.......then so be it. I'm not going to let anybody hurt me this way anymore........enough is enough.....I've had it. I'm done......
I hope you have a good life my dear friend.......without me in it.... :(
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It happened to me. And that fella has de-listed me from his FB. I do not know what i had done to him. I thought we were good friends.
honestly i have face this kind of situation :( maybe not exactly the same, but felt like what kak lin wrote is almost the same as what i felt before.. and yep, sometime we have to be cruel.. but actually it is not so cruel.. bukan bunuh orang pun kan kak.. hee.. its ok to let go someone who does not want us anymore or someone who can't trust our sincere anymore or anything from them that make our life a bit serba tak kena.. cuz in this long journey, we'll meet another friends.. that can make our life live again! ;) let us move on, learn something and say adioss forever to past life ^^ {nasihat dr sndr jugak sebenarnye ni.. huu}
Willie....looks like I'm not the only one who has that same FB experience....I had a few who deleted me from their FB too...and till now I have no idea why... :(
Asma'....yup...what you say is true...when we say we have to be cruel to that person...it's not like we are killing anybody...hehe...it's just that sometimes our actions can seem that way....but we are just protecting ourselves from getting hurt over and over again. It's just not worth it. I'm so tired of it and I just want some peace of mind. Indeed you are right...we will meet new friends in our life...we always do.... :)We just need to let go....and move forward :).
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